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  For Emily, Annie, & Maddie . . .and Nica’s everywhere.

  1. HOME, SWEET HOME

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  It all started with a stupid sandwich. Chicken curry and spinach stuffed inside a homemade pita pocket. I found it in my backpack one Friday morning when I was getting ready for school. Neatly wrapped inside a neon-green plastic bag, one of those flimsy sacks used by the local Bangkok markets, along with a handwritten note, which tumbled out:

  Nica:

  Remember to recycle!

  Love, Mom.

  “What’s this?” I stood in the doorway of my mother’s bedroom, dangling the suspect package in front of her face like it was radioactive plutonium.

  “Your lunch. I made it last night.” Dressed in a colorful peasant skirt and ivory silk blouse, she grabbed her oversized shoulder bag and swooped by me, out of the room.

  “What possessed you to do that?” I followed her into the kitchen.

  “You don’t like chicken curry?” She was rummaging through a stack of magazines and guidebooks on the kitchen table. “By the way, have you seen my notebook? I know it must be here somewhere. . . .”

  “No, I love chicken curry, Mom,” I said while handing her the book, which was lying on top of the fridge, right where she’d left it the night before. She was always misplacing things. “That’s not the point.”

  “Well, the point is, Nica, you’re sixteen and you need to take better care of yourself. A bag of prawn crackers is not lunch. Not to mention you need some nutrition with kickboxing practice this afternoon.” My mother dropped the spiral notebook into her bag and then rushed out the front door of our large 1930s colonial Bangkok apartment with me close behind.

  I would not let the conversation end. “Which I’ve had every Friday for like the last six months. All of a sudden you’re auditioning for Mother of the Year?” If I sounded a wee bit suspicious, it was with good reason. My mother never made lunch for me. Ever.

  • • •

  Let me rewind: I’m not saying that Lydia (aka my mom) had never once made my lunch since I was born. But she certainly had not since we’d moved overseas ten years ago. I’m not complaining or trying to be all Judge-Judyish about her less-than-stellar parenting skills. Honestly. I’m not even suggesting that she was a bad mom or the least bit neglectful (though the word “maternal” doesn’t immediately pop to mind when describing her attributes). All I’m saying is that my mother was always preoccupied. Enthusiastically self-obsessed, with her own life and the fate of the world, for starters. Concern for my food intake and emotional well-being ranked way lower than, say, worrying about the vanishing polar bear population or where she could find a good Ashtanga yoga workshop.

  • • •

  Not quite buying Lydia’s newfound concern, I chased her down the stairs out to the busy street in Soi Tonson, determined to get to the bottom of things. If there was one thing I knew for sure in my young life, it was when my mom was trying to butter me up, getting ready to lower the boom about something or other I wasn’t going to like. And that day she was most definitely avoiding me big time.

  “We’ll discuss it all later, honey. Hurry, or you’ll miss your bus.” She kissed me, pointing to the approaching bus, anxious to leave. She was going to check out the quaint Thonburi canals along the Chao Phraya River for an article she was writing for some travel magazine.

  “The next one’s in eight minutes.” I stood there at the corner, not getting on, refusing to budge. Not till she came clean about what was really on her mind. “Tell me what’s going on. What’s the big secret?”

  My mother knew she couldn’t dodge me any longer. She took a deep breath, sighed, and said, “Antarctica.”

  “As in the continent at the South Pole? What about it?” World geography was most definitely something I was up on.

  “They want me to go. National Geographic magazine. To do a cover story.”

  “Mom, that’s awesome. When do we leave?”

  I was all ready to find my passport and hop on the next plane south. Not that I didn’t love Bangkok. I did. It was insanely beautiful, with golden palaces and ancient Buddhist temples. It was also insanely crowded, with twelve million people, but incredibly welcoming, with the most delicious seafood I’d ever tasted. The weather was hot and humid and always felt like summer. Shopping heaven with everything from inexpensive clothing and jewelry markets to fancy bazaars. All in all, a fantastic and totally amazing 24/7 metropolis that never slept. But we’d already been in Thailand more than nine months. Our longest stretch ever, anywhere. It now was time for us to move on.

  Traveling had always been my mother’s passion, bordering on mania. She was an ecotravel writer (her description, not mine)—a globe flitterer who loved immersing herself in far-flung, exotic locales for months at a time. Living among “the people” and not in fancy five-star hotels, soaking up their culture and respecting their way of life, hopefully without inflicting too much damage, while she wrote about all the exciting adventures awaiting the daring tourist. As a result, we’d moved around the world as often as some people changed Facebook status. Nineteen times over the last ten years (with as many schools), from Zanzibar to Patagonia, with stops in Morocco, Kazakhstan, Tasmania, Botswana, India, and Thailand, among many others.

  In fact, I’d lived on every continent except Antarctica. And now I’d be able to cross that off my list of things to do before I died. It was going to be epic.

  I knew I was kind of a freak. Not a two-headed circus type or bearded-lady variety. But more like the “Really, you lived where? You did what?” type of freak, which I totally didn’t mind at all.

  Believe it or not, I was happy. I loved seeing the world. Not having a permanent home or school seemed kind of liberating. Really. No emotional complications or bad breakups with boyfriends (not that I had ever really had a serious one yet). No big expectations or letdowns from friends. No realizing you were hanging with the wrong crew. And most important: no obligations. I would move on to the next place and dazzle the kids at my new school with my sparkling personality before life got messy and confusing.

  My mother apparently had other ideas.

  “You’re dumping me?” I felt sucker punched, like the wind had been knocked out of me. “You’re going to Antarctica alone? Without me?”

  “Honey, they want me to live at McMurdo Station for nine months. There isn’t a school at the South Pole.”

  “Who needs a classroom? You can homeschool me.” I admit I was grasping at straws. McMurdo Station, Antarctica, was the most remote outpost on earth, according to Lydia. A science station and research center, it had about one thousand residents in the summer but fewer than two hundred in the winter.

  She hastened to add, “We’re talking months with no sunlight. Not to mention being confined indoors twenty-four/seven.” My mother had a point. Antarctica was hardly the place for a teenager who loved exploring new cities and cherished her independence.

  And yet I wasn’t prepared to give in without at least putting up a fight.

  “I’ll adapt,” I insisted brightly. “You know how great I am at fitting in to new places.”

  “Yes, but you’re a teenager,” my mother was quick to remind me. “You should be hanging with kids your own age. Not holed up in some climate-controlled research station in the middle of nowhere with a bunch of overeducated scientists.”

  “Sounds like a perfect learning opportunity. Think of how much I’ll get out of the experience,” I retorted brightly, desperately trying to put the best spin on my argument. “Besides, you always said I was precocious.”

  “Believe me, I’d do anything to take you along,” my mother admitted.

  “Then do it. Take me, Mom,” I pleaded, playing on her heartstrings, feeling her resolve w
eakening. “We’ll have so much fun together. We always do.”

  “I know,” she replied with a remorseful sigh. “It’s just . . .”

  “Just what?” I asked with trepidation.

  Still, I wasn’t quite prepared for the biggest shock yet to come.

  “Honey, it’s just not possible. Besides, I’ve been thinking . . . about your future and all.” Always a bad sign when my mother uttered those three words: “I’ve been thinking . . .”

  “What about my future?” I held my breath, anxiously waiting for the other shoe to drop. And boy, did it ever.

  • • •

  That is how I ended up jetting solo from Bangkok to Denver on a fifteen-hour red-eye flight less than two weeks later. My mom shipped me off to live with my dad in some Podunk hick town in southern Colorado.

  For the next two years, until I graduate. (Please, just shoot me now.)

  My free-spirited mother suddenly thought a traditional high school education with all the homespun trimmings in small-town America was the best thing for her worldly daughter. It made no sense to me. She had lived there with my father briefly after they got married nearly twenty years ago. I thought she never had any intention of going back, since my dear old mom got the hell out of there with me when I was two and never looked back, though she never exactly explained why. After four years living with my mom’s parents outside Philadelphia we then moved overseas. And now she was shipping me off like some FedEx package—with overnight delivery guaranteed.

  • • •

  The night after she told me my life was about to change, we had a huge fight. The biggest fight we’d ever had.

  “Why are you doing this? Can’t you see you’re ruining my life?” I’m usually not a drama queen, but desperate times called for desperate measures.

  “Nica, it’ll be great. You’ll see. It’ll be exciting. Finally putting down roots.”

  “I’m not a tree. I don’t need roots.”

  “What about having good friends? And dating. Going to the mall. And to football games. And the senior prom. Not to mention more quality time with your dad. Believe me: You’ll thank me for this later.”

  “I wouldn’t hold my breath if I were you.” My mother was really doing the hard sell, and I wasn’t buying. “Besides, if Barrington was so great, why did you leave with me the first chance you got?”

  “Nica . . . you know why I left,” my mother argued back, suddenly looking away from me and avoiding all eye contact as she pretended to be sifting through some mail. “Your dad and I divorced. He wanted to stay. And I had to get away from there . . . you know, to see the world.”

  I could tell by Lydia’s uncomfortable reaction that the past was still a sensitive subject with her. Especially where my dad was concerned. She rarely brought it up on her own. And even then her memories were limited to stories about what I was like as a child and my penchant for doing weird things like peeling back wallpaper. (“When I asked the pediatrician if I should be concerned, she said it was because you were so curious and inquisitive.”)

  “Anyway,” my mother continued, adeptly evading my question and turning the argument back on me, “didn’t you say you were tired of all this moving around? Living out of suitcases? You’ll have stability and consistency. You’ll finally have a permanent house and really feel like you belong.” Perhaps that’s what made Lydia such a good journalist. She was relentless in her pursuit of a story or an interview. Not to mention getting her way.

  “You don’t have a clue who I am or where I belong.” Okay, neither did I, but I wasn’t ever going to admit that to her. So I stomped off to my room and slammed the door shut.

  Yes, maybe I did complain a tiny bit sometimes to my mother that I was tired of changing schools and all this moving around. And maybe I had said once or twice that it might be kind of nice to spend more time with my dad. But why did my mother decide this time to listen to me?

  Well, the joke was on me.

  Early the next morning I awoke to the sound of my mother arguing in a hushed tone with someone over the phone. This was unusual. Lydia rarely got angry. She prided herself on her easygoing nature—very little fazed her. So the fact that she was arguing with my father, of all people, made me more than a tiny bit curious. Though her bedroom door was closed, I could still overhear her side of the conversation, demanding to know “how safe” everything was in Barrington, Colorado, where my dad lived. Her sudden concern infuriated me. As if I were this little child who needed constant supervision. I felt the urge to barge in there and tell my mother off. Instead, I swallowed my anger and snuck back to bed, secretly praying that Mom would have a change of heart about sending me away.

  • • •

  Twelve days later my mother escorted me through the sleek, ultra-modern Suvarnabhumi Airport terminal. I wore my favorite peacock paisley flip-flops, vintage Levi’s jeans, and hot-pink camisole (courtesy of the Bangkok flea markets). My mom looked quasi-stylish in her jade Thai silk blouse and ivory linen slacks. I thought about all the amazing places we’d lived the last ten years and decided that sultry Thailand was probably my favorite. Not just because of the yummy pad thai and massaman curry, the vibrant people, and the gorgeous white sand beaches, but because of its very Zen attitude about life—an enlightened attitude that I still lacked.

  I mean, how could I ever meditate and look inward at myself for life’s answers and spiritual wisdom when I didn’t even know what most of the questions were?

  “Nica?” My mother finally broke our awkward silence amid the din of arrival and departure announcements in five different languages. Her voice had a slight inflection, like she was posing a question: “Keep an open mind?”

  “About boys?” I snapped back, quite pissed to see Niagara Falls suddenly threatening to gush from her normally lucid hazel eyes. No way. I was not about to have my dignified farewell dissolve into some hideously hormonal blubberfest to be witnessed by thousands of gawking travelers in the middle of the Bangkok airport.

  Luckily, my snarkiness had the desired effect. Dialing back her tears and pangs of maternal guilt (as I knew she would), she shot me one of those classic Lydia looks of exasperation tweaked with wry amusement—head tilted slightly, the right corner of her mouth upturned just a bit.

  “About life,” she replied with a smirk, indicating she understood this would be an emotion-free zone. Then, suddenly darkening, she looked me right in the eye and said, “And listen to your dad. No matter what.”

  I promised. As if there were any mischief to be had in Barrington, Colorado.

  Still, I’d never seen my mother look so serious—almost worried. I immediately brushed aside all thoughts that anything was off. I just assumed she didn’t want me to give my dad a hard time.

  Yet there was something lingering in her eyes when we hugged.

  I pulled back first. My mother almost didn’t let go. Fortunately, my plane was already boarding, so she had no choice but to release me. That was when she had handed me a bag loaded with food she purchased at the local market. I was so surprised that I actually forgot to thank her.

  Mom’s parting words were “I’m going to miss you.” Mine were “Take care, Mom. Don’t forget to charge your phone.” She had an annoying habit of letting her battery die in the most inconvenient places (like the time we got lost in Mae Hong Son, accidentally crossed over the Thai border into Myanmar, and almost became captives of the Burmese army).

  Mom grinned and promised to remember, then watched me stroll down the ramp to my plane, at which point I heard her burst into tears.

  I didn’t look back.

  • • •

  My flight landed in Denver, Colorado at four forty-five p.m. Exactly on schedule. Weather in the Mile High City was amazingly perfect for late October: midsixties, afternoon sunshine, a cloudless blue sky, shimmering office towers with the magnificent Rocky Mountains in the distance.

  There were so many flights landing around the same time that day it took forever for my two
beat-up suitcases to finally come tumbling down the chute onto the baggage-carousel. I scanned the baggage claim area for my father, but there was no sign of him anywhere. I figured that he probably didn’t want to park and was waiting outside for me in his car. However, when I rolled my two bags to the passenger pickup area, I didn’t see him either. I tried calling and texting him but kept getting his voice mail. I thought of all sorts of reasons why my father wasn’t there. Maybe he got stuck in traffic? Or maybe he was held up at the hospital with a patient? I wasn’t concerned. I was so used to traveling and navigating my way through strange airports that Denver was no big deal. After waiting almost an hour for my dad to show, I trotted over to the taxi stand and grabbed the first car I could.

  The taxi ride from the airport to my father’s house in Barrington took nearly ninety minutes, during which my driver, Sami, a chatty guy in his twenties originally from Peru and now residing in Denver, regaled me with a whole history lesson about the all the towns in the foothills of the Rockies. Sami prided himself on knowing more about Colorado than any other taxi driver in Denver. He had taken a slew of adult-education classes and was like Wikipedia come to life.

  “Barrington was settled during the nineteenth century as a trading outpost along the infamous Santa Fe Trail. Back then Barrington had a reputation as a Wild West town complete with gunfights, Indian raids, and bloody battles during the Mexican-American War. Today it’s known for a low crime rate, excellent schools, steady property values.”

  “Sounds thrilling.” Especially if you like quiet and boring. Which I definitely did not.

  “The town also claims to be one of the safest in the state.” I detected an awkward hesitation in his voice—in the way he said it.

  “What do you mean, ‘claims’? They’re not?”

  “No. Sorry.” He fumbled around. “It’s just . . . my English. I get a little messed up with words sometimes.”

  Still, Sami’s English sounded fine to me. After that he went radio silent. The rest of the ride he didn’t speak another word.